why so serious?

What’s with the foul mood? I hate people who put it on other people when they are stressed. If you don’t know how to handle or manage yourself spiritually, you don’t need to spew out the negativity all over the place. If you want to be moody or bitchy or whatever, keep it to yourself. I admit, I can be pretty moody too. But I try very, very hard to keep to myself and just remain quiet when I’m in a crowd. I don’t turn other people’s day upside down, especially not so early in the morning. If I’m not happy with something that has got nothing to do with that person, why should I take it out on that person? Just because she’s a subordinate? The problem is the people who do this on a regular basis think they’re right. The problem is they think it is justified that others should feel equally as stressed or as miserable as they are. It doesn’t occur to them that others have their own 1001 problems to solve too, and they have their own tasks to be done. Just because they don’t appear to be on the verge of breaking down like you are, it doesn’t mean they’re not bogged down with work either. It all boils down to basic manners. It’s not something complex, out of the box or something that requires an in depth research. Simple. It doesn’t hurt to be nice to others, even if they’re your subordinates. Everyone has feelings. How can you treat the other person as though he or she doesn’t have feelings? Why must you be so bitter to (almost) everyone? Or is it fair for you to switch your mood on and off? Like one second you’re in a foul mood and then you’re nice and then off you go again. Actually, I don’t even expect them to be ‘nice’ in the true sense of the word. I guess that would be too much to ask. *rolls eyes* I just hope that they would be a little considerate. Like I’ve mentioned before, it’s all just plain,simple,good manners. It should be something inherent. It shouldn’t be something that you HAVE to develop. Maybe I’m not used to it. I’m surrounded by people who are well-mannered. In all my life, I’ve yet to be ‘friends’ with people who aren’t ‘nice’. Now that I’m exposed to people with characteristics that I’m not familiar with, I feel a little taken aback. Emotional, even. I guess if I’m going to meet many more of that kind of people, I need to learn to control my emotions and not be too easily affected by their inappropriate and uncalled for actions. It took almost ALL of me to restrain myself from snapping back or retaliating. Fuhhhh. It wouldn’t be pretty when I’m all angry and flared up. But so far, I think I’m doing fine. I’m learning to deal with unfavourable characteristics. Hopefully it will all pay off at the end of the day. On top of everything else, I have to deal with this. Perlu ke? *sigh*

Thankfully, a little sunshine is coming my way next week.